Dominical\u2019de tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m Emmy ad\u0131ndaki tatl\u0131 k\u0131z, 1,5 sene ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de. Amerikal\u0131 san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcm ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131klara ra\u011fmen, ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi en g\u00fczel senelerden biri oldu\u011funu anlatt\u0131. (Anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k hikayelerinden en hafifini payla\u015f\u0131y\u0131m: Mahalle bakkal\u0131 \u00e7ok tonton bir dede olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, Emmy\u2019ye hi\u00e7 y\u00fcz vermiyormu\u015f ve Emmy de bu duruma hi\u00e7 anlam veremiyormu\u015f. Konu\u015furken y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakm\u0131yormu\u015f O\u2019nun. Aylar sonra bir g\u00fcn bakkal defterine \u2018Amerikal\u0131\u2019 yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, \u2018no, no Canada\u2019 demi\u015f ve bakkal amca o kadar mutlu olmu\u015f ki, kasan\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan ko\u015farak ge\u00e7ip, Emmy\u2019e s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 sar\u0131lm\u0131\u015f.) Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her\u015feye ra\u011fmen o kadar g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yledi ki T\u00fcrkiye i\u00e7in, bir an \u2018ayn\u0131 \u00fclkeden bahsetti\u011fimize emin miyiz acaba\u2019 oldum. Asya taraf\u0131nda ge\u00e7irmi\u015f bir senesini, acaba ondan m\u0131 diye teredd\u00fct ettim ard\u0131ndan. Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 en mutlu topluluk oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131yordu \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u2013 yani d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncemin tam tersini.. O y\u00fczden benim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok ilgin\u00e7 bir konu\u015fma oldu. Belli ki T\u00fcrklerin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve aile kavram\u0131 O\u2019nu \u00e7ok etkilemi\u015fti. Emmy\u2019i tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in ve \u00f6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131 kald\u0131rmay\u0131 ba\u015farabildi\u011fi i\u00e7in inan\u0131lmaz mutluyum. Ve her\u015feyin sadece bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 kadar yak\u0131n olabilece\u011fini yine deneyimlemi\u015f oldu\u011fum ve biraz daha temizlenebildi\u011fim i\u00e7in. Malesef insan\u0131z ve malesef elimizdekilerin de\u011ferini unutabiliyoruz. Te\u015fekk\u00fcrler Emmy hat\u0131rlatt\u0131klar\u0131n ve belki de Yol\u2019umun en de\u011ferli sohbetlerinden birini benimle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in!!<\/p>\n

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Az \u00f6nce anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 asla baltalamak i\u00e7in de\u011fil \u015fimdi payla\u015facaklar\u0131m. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zaten alakas\u0131 bile yok devlet ile halk\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ne g\u00fczel ki.. Sadece farkl\u0131 \u00fclke vatanda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 ve hikayelerini dinledik\u00e7e, sistemler hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerim de\u011fi\u015fiyor. Mesela Holy, Amerika\u2019da i\u015finden kovuldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ayda 1200 dolar kazan\u0131yor ve bununla 1 senedir d\u00fcnyay\u0131 geziyor. Emmy\u2019nin sevgilisi de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde, ama 1800 dolar al\u0131yor ayda ve sadece kendisini de\u011fil, sevgilisini de gezdiriyor. \u0130sve\u00e7li tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m hem\u015fire, ayda 4000 euro kazanarak, senede sadece 4 ay \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p, \u00e7ok g\u00fczel para biriktirmeyi becerebiliyor ve senenin di\u011fer aylar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcnyay\u0131 gezerek ge\u00e7iriyor. D\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ise, i\u015f imkanlar\u0131 muhte\u015fem oldu\u011fundan, hemen yeniden i\u015f bulup ayn\u0131 rutine d\u00f6nebiliyor. Frans\u0131z hem\u015fireye ne kadar kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 soramad\u0131m ama O da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde 2 senedir gezmesine ra\u011fmen ve her sene noeli kutlamak i\u00e7in \u00fclkesine d\u00f6nmesine ra\u011fmen, daha senelerce gezmeyi planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yor. Auldes, Kanada\u2019da meyve toplayarak, g\u00fcnde 900 dolar kazan\u0131p, y\u0131l\u0131n i\u015f g\u00fcnlerinden \u00e7ok tatil yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yor. 50\u2019li ya\u015flar\u0131na gelmi\u015f Martha, emeklilik maa\u015f\u0131 ile 2 senedir d\u00fcnyay\u0131 gezerken, ne kadar mutlu oldu\u011funu ve bu y\u00fczden evini temelli b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00f6lene kadar bunu yapmay\u0131 planlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131yor. Kanada devleti, \u00fcniversite okumak isteyenlere, \u00f6\u011frencinin ve ailenin ortak a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 banka hesab\u0131na %50\u2019ye yak\u0131n katk\u0131da bulunabiliyor.. Ve daha niceleri..<\/p>\n

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Dominical\u2019de tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m Emmy ad\u0131ndaki tatl\u0131 k\u0131z, 1,5 sene ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de. Amerikal\u0131 san\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcm ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131klara ra\u011fmen, ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi en g\u00fczel senelerden biri oldu\u011funu anlatt\u0131. (Anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k hikayelerinden en hafifini payla\u015f\u0131y\u0131m: Mahalle bakkal\u0131 \u00e7ok tonton bir dede olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, Emmy\u2019ye hi\u00e7 y\u00fcz vermiyormu\u015f ve Emmy de bu duruma hi\u00e7 anlam veremiyormu\u015f. Konu\u015furken y\u00fcz\u00fcne bile bakm\u0131yormu\u015f O\u2019nun. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[27,5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3720"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3722,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3720\/revisions\/3722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}