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Senior Jose, 2 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00f6t\u00fc tecr\u00fcbeden sonra, bu d\u00fcnyada kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z vermenin ve alman\u0131n ne kadar g\u00fczel hatta e\u015fsiz bir his oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatt\u0131 bize. Kate\u2019le ba\u015fta etti\u011fimiz teredd\u00fctlerin gereksiz oldu\u011funu daha sonradan anlad\u0131k.<\/p>\n

Rivas\/Nicaragua\u2019dan chicken bus\u2019a bindi\u011fimiz zaman, Kate tualeti kullanmak istemi\u015fti. Senior Jose, onunla tualete gitmeye kadar yard\u0131m teklifleriyle ba\u015flad\u0131. \u2018S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7erken, benimle gelin, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc turistlerden 1 dolar talep ediyorlar\u2019 diye devam etti. Ger\u00e7i polisler izin vermedi ama Senior Jose, o g\u00fczel g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemesini tonton y\u00fcz\u00fcnden hi\u00e7 eksik etmedi. Biz bilet al\u0131rken, bizi bekledi. 3 kademe giri\u015fin her birinde bizimleydi. Otob\u00fcse binmemize yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. Asl\u0131nda biz geceyi Monteverde\/Santa Elena\u2019da ge\u00e7irmek istiyorduk, ancak s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7erken, g\u00fcne\u015f batt\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, art\u0131k oraya otob\u00fcs\u00fcn gitmedi\u011fini \u00f6\u011frenince, bizi evine davet etti. Tilaran\u2019da ailesi ile birlikte ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131. 2 k\u0131z ve 2 o\u011flu varm\u0131\u015f. Bir k\u0131z\u0131 ve bir o\u011flu Amerika\u2019da okuyormu\u015f, di\u011fer k\u0131z\u0131 ve kar\u0131s\u0131, teyzelerini g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015fka bir \u015fehire gitmi\u015fler. Di\u011fer o\u011flu ise onu evde bekliyormu\u015f ve 16 ya\u015f\u0131ndaym\u0131\u015f. Evine bakacakt\u0131k, e\u011fer i\u00e7imize sinmeyen bir durum olursa diye evinin yak\u0131nda LP\u2019dan bir hostel bularak, ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z gereksiz \u015f\u00fcpheyi selametle u\u011furlard\u0131k. Otob\u00fcsle Canas\u2019a kadar geldik. Di\u011fer dura\u011fa y\u00fcr\u00fcmek 15 dakika alacakt\u0131 ve benim koca g\u00fcllemi ta\u015f\u0131yacak g\u00fcc\u00fcm kalmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Taksiyi tek ba\u015f\u0131ma bile \u00f6demeye raz\u0131yd\u0131m ancak Senior Jose izin vermedi ve \u00e7antam\u0131 s\u0131rtlan\u0131p y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda bir arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc. Bizi g\u00f6stererek Tilaran\u2019a kadar hep beraber gitmeyi teklif etmi\u015f olacak ki, o da oldu. Evine vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bizi rahats\u0131z eden hi\u00e7 bir\u015fey olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce rahat\u00e7a yerle\u015ftik. Kate\u2019le ikimize \u00f6zel 2 yatakl\u0131 bir oda verdi, tualetin ve mutfa\u011f\u0131n yerini g\u00f6sterdi. Bir\u015feyler yeme\u011fe d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ve isterse ona zevkle yemek \u0131smarlamak istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yledim ama ak\u015famlar\u0131 kesinlikle yemek yemedi\u011fini belirtti. \u00c7ok ge\u00e7 olmadan yatt\u0131k, haliyle \u00e7ok yorulmu\u015ftuk. Sabah uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda Senior Jose\u2019nin \u00e7oktan kahvalt\u0131 haz\u0131rlamaya koyuldu\u011funu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce, hayret ve sevgiyle ta\u015fan k\u0131k\u0131rdamalar\u0131m\u0131z, ortama daha bile huzur katt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 umuyorum.<\/p>\n

Sabah kahvalt\u0131 \u00f6ncesi Senior Jose\u2019nin etti\u011fi dua e\u015fli\u011finde ruhum gene \u015faha kalkm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Kahvalt\u0131da etti\u011fimiz sohbet de \u00e7ok ilgin\u00e7ti. Evlenme ya\u015f ortalamas\u0131n\u0131n burada yakla\u015f\u0131k 20\u2019li ya\u015flar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendik. Evlenmeden \u00f6nce yakla\u015f\u0131k 6 ay fl\u00f6rt etmek do\u011fal kar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131yormu\u015f. Ancak daha sonra evlenmeleri bekleniyormu\u015f. E\u011fer evlenmeyeceklerse de, daha fazla uzatmadan ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131 \u00f6ng\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f. Bo\u015fanma ise hala hi\u00e7 ho\u015f kar\u015f\u0131lanm\u0131yormu\u015f.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hem o\u011fluna hem de kendisine verdi\u011fim nazar boncu\u011fu tabikide Senior Jose\u2019nin yapt\u0131klar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bir toz tanesi kal\u0131r ama dilerim kendi g\u00fczelli\u011fini hat\u0131rlatacak bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Daha sonra dura\u011fa gelip, her\u015feyin yolunda olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye geldi. \u0130\u015fte o zaman kendimi Senior Jose\u2019ye sar\u0131lmaktan al\u0131 koyamad\u0131m.<\/p>\n

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Senior Jose, yard\u0131m sebebini hristiyanl\u0131\u011fa ba\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. En az\u0131ndan sebebinin bu oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi. Akl\u0131ma Jessi ile bana Bombay\u2019de yine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z yard\u0131m eden aile geldi. Onlar da yard\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131\u011fa ba\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum da, din ger\u00e7ekten insanlar\u0131n iyi olmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olabiliyor. Kate de bunun \u00fczerine Kanada\u2019da insanlara yard\u0131m edip, ateistli\u011fe ba\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Senior Jose, 2 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z k\u00f6t\u00fc tecr\u00fcbeden sonra, bu d\u00fcnyada kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z vermenin ve alman\u0131n ne kadar g\u00fczel hatta e\u015fsiz bir his oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlatt\u0131 bize. Kate\u2019le ba\u015fta etti\u011fimiz teredd\u00fctlerin gereksiz oldu\u011funu daha sonradan anlad\u0131k. Rivas\/Nicaragua\u2019dan chicken bus\u2019a bindi\u011fimiz zaman, Kate tualeti kullanmak istemi\u015fti. Senior Jose, onunla tualete gitmeye kadar yard\u0131m teklifleriyle ba\u015flad\u0131. \u2018S\u0131n\u0131r\u0131 ge\u00e7erken, benimle […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[27],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3668"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3671,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3668\/revisions\/3671"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3668"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3668"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/vanessastateofmind.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3668"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}